Dealing With Negative People

Hmmm, so we all come across such people all the time. The idea is not to let them get into your head and trust me sometimes it gets hard. But hard as it may be you ought to do yourself this favor. You cannot imagine the amount of time we waste giving our attention to such people. They literally suck out our mental energy and this can be very toxic. A few tips to deal with the stress caused by such difficult people in your life:-

1. ANALYZE

You don’t want to spend a lot of time on this. Just get your priorities straight. Letting yourself down for something which someone else said is not what one should be doing. Move on. Get going with what really matters to you.

2. SEE THE BIG PICTURE

Don’t sweat the small stuff. What happened has already happened. Learn from the experience and let it go. Ten, twenty years from now this bad experience is not going to affect you. So its better to only address it and forget it. Don’t pay any more attention otherwise a small incidence will definitely gonna turn into something big which eventually gonna harm you.

3. COMPASSION

Whatever it may be, they are human beings too. What’s the point of living if we don’t learn to forgive our fellow beings who are just like us but with different experiences and perspectives? Remember –

To err is human, to forgive is divine. “

Be a bigger person and have compassion even for the people who are against you. In the end, life comes down to a few moments which define you. Work for those moments and FORGIVE!

I wish you strength and peace and joy!

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